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When Empathy is Not Enough
Olga Kolgusheva Olga Kolgusheva

When Empathy is Not Enough

When empathy is asked to do the work of justice, politics, or systems, it falters—centering the feeler, not the one in need, and mistaking feeling for action.

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The Heart of Parenting
Stephen Hanmer D’Elia Stephen Hanmer D’Elia

The Heart of Parenting

Play, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy create the ground for relationships that deepen trust and mutual understanding.

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7 ways to connect with a young person
Stephen Hanmer D’Elia Stephen Hanmer D’Elia

7 ways to connect with a young person

Seven relational lenses—rooted in the perspectives of young people and informed by decades of practice—offer ways to build trust, resonance, and real connection.

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